This is my head 2 weeks after the accident. Hurts badly but seems to be healing okay. I pray the hair grows back, but at least I still have the comb over do.
Since she has been home from the hospital she has needed constant help to get around, whether by her fiance, oldest son, or her walker. She can't walk for long distances, she then has to use a wheelchair. For the first 5 weeks she was unable to take a shower without someone in the room with her because of her poor balance. Dressing changes everyday and some of them twice a day. The scars remain as well as the memory and nightmare of that night. She continues to be unable to work and the financial burden has put a strain on her family.
She goes through everyday with pain and the memory. She has had many follow-up visits with her doctors and there seems to be no end in sight at this time. Not being able to do things without the assistance of a family or friend, the embarrassment of having to use a walker at the age of 33. She prays everyday for the nightmare to end but everyday it seems as though another brick wall is put in front of her to hurdle over or tear it down. Since the accident she has fears of her children riding bikes and that is not allowed at this time. She told them when her fear goes away she will allow it again but it is not them that she does not trust but the driver's on the roadways. Her kidneys are healing with no active bleeding at this time (2 months after the accident) and her hemoglobin has returned to a normal level. Unfortunately the fractures in her back have had no change since the accident, they are neither worse nor healing. She continues on pain medications routinely due to the extreme pain that she is in everyday. Since the accident she has been unable to drive or work and last week on August 10th, 2010 she was given the okay to drive locally with someone in the vehicle with her. No long distance driving for her yet. She was also given bad news on that day that she will continue to be off of work for at least another 3 months. She worries everyday about how she is going to financially take care of her children with no income. She is unable to work and her 3 youngest boys' dad has failed to pay her child support in over a year and continues to not pay her anything. It amazes her everyday how one relaxing bike ride can ruin everything in a persons life. She continues to struggle with healing and raising her boys as well as trying to keep a roof over their heads. She has had to beg and plead with some of her debtors to understand the situation that she is in.
As the days go by she continues in pain but makes the best of everyday that GOD has given her. She has been looking into bike trails in Illinois that would make things safer for all to be able to ride. If anyone knows of any or how to start a petition for the town to build a safe bike trail let her know. The safety of the bicyclist is a goal that she has at this time. There are bike trails all over Illinois and yet with the growing population and size of this town there are none here.
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